Today is the best Valentine's Day I've had in years. And my husband isn't even here yet. He’s been gone for just over a week, sucked into the polar vortex that is the Northeast USA. He’s in the armpit of the universe, otherwise known as New Jersey. I am at home with the spawn, forgetting to feed the fish, which seems fine considering they have now taken to eating their weaker brethren – the ones who could not overcome the starvation. Handling three kids, two jobs and several